“When a man says no in this culture, it’s the end of the discussion. When a woman says no, it’s the beginning of a negotiation.”
Gavin De Becker (via nohuggingpolicy)
FUCK CAN I AGREE WITH THIS MORE
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MFW having a fight with my boyfriend.
How to Handle Women Crying
1) Stop loving them.
2) Sing a sad song.
3) Buy cotton candy and eat it yourself.
4) Women cry because they are sad, or because you or someone else has hurt them. Sometimes they cry from rage, sometimes from relief or gladness. Much is to be made of what kind of crying she’s doing.
5) Don’t say ‘her glycerin tears slide down her cheeks’ or talk about snowy landscapes.
6) Avoid telling her she looks like a duck.
7) Non-sexual hugging is appropriate.
8) Sexual hugging is probably not appropriate.
9) This is a bad time to encourage the smoking of cigarettes.
10) Bring a tissue or handkerchief.
11) It’s okay.
Fuck
My tumblr is a wasteland compared to the beautiful tumblrs of Baptismus Flaminis and SuchafuckingSoren.
*sigh*
I don’t care how many times this appears on my dash I must reblog it every time.
You can’t not reblog this.
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SCREAM FOREVER
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Things I Did Tonight Instead of Going to Bed Early Like I Said I Would:
- finish up cross stitching plan 6
- watch Newsies
- eat a kajillion pieces of toast
I love @suchafuckingsoren.
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My McFassy/Handsome Shark appreciation is putting a whole different spin on waiting to be rejected by the Xmen movie.
Mrow.
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Sounds like someone I know.
my poverty as illustrated by this chart.
(click on it to view in higher res)
19 year old transman violently attacked for being trans
19-year-old transman, James Alexander, was violently attacked for being trans yesterday morning while going for a walk in his neighborhood. To get to his destination, he had to walk past the house of a girl he was once interested in who had turned him down in the past (saying that “she can’t be with him because he’s not a real man” and that “she’d consider him IF he had a penis.”, and also calling him a “faggot”.), but he didn’t think anything of it, as he’s lived in the area for three years. He certainly wasn’t expecting what was to come.
As he walked past the house of the girl, she came out, and told him she wanted to talk to him. James stopped, to be polite, and because he figured he’d let her say what she needed to say. She asked him if he is a man, to which he said “Yes.”. She then told him to prove he’s a man. He told her off, and began to walk away. As he was walking away, he felt someone grab the back of his shirt. The person spun him around to face them, and he discovered that it was the girls six-foot-five, 25-year-old boyfriend, Mark. Mark yelled in his face and also told him to prove he was a guy. James told him to back off, and shoved him away. Both the girl and Mark called James a “faggot”, and he began to cry. The two of them then proceeded to make fun of James for crying, saying “Oh look, the little girl is crying”. James started to walk away again, as Mark approached him and punched him in the face, right in the eye.. and continued hitting him repeatedly, while laughing, because James was crying.
James, who is significantly smaller than Mark, at five-foot-eight, and is not a violent person at all, defended himself as best he could, and got away.. but not before he sustained injuries to his face and hand, as well as psychological trauma.
James’ mother called the police, and also had him take photos of his injuries.. but it would seem that Mark is not going to be charged, after all. James explains, “It’s his word against mine. He has his mom, his girl, and three other people saying he didn’t do anything.. so even though I have a broken face and can’t physically stop crying or shaking, he is just getting a warning. I’m pressing charges, but he won’t be arrested. Just told to go to court on a certain day I guess.”
The bottom line is that he was attacked for a specific reason; for being trans. That qualifies what happened to him as a hate crime. This was a violent transphobic attack, and the guy who did this to this 19 year old transman, needs to be charged and convicted accordingly. It’s unfortunate that they won’t arrest Mark.. but I do hope that once this goes to court, he’s punished. He shouldn’t be able to just get away with this. Too many times has an incident like this happened, and the attacker gone free. It’s time we (transgender individuals) started being taken seriously when things like this happen to us.
If anyone who is reading this knows of any resources that could help James to ensure his attacker is convicted (legal counsel for trans people, etc), he can be contacted at ericjames1302@yahoo.com.
Also, if you’re a journalist who would like to write about this, I encourage you to do so, as increasing awareness about this incident is very important. There needs to be a huge public outcry about this. This boy needs all the support he can get. Then, maybe something will be done.
Once again, James can be contacted at ericjames1302@yahoo.com.Please reblog. Infinitely. The world must hear about this.
This makes me hate people I will always reblog this
Mark makes me sick. I hate him
This is the kind of stuff that needs to be erased from the world
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